It’s time to make it official with a celebration that includes close friends and family.

The engagement party will be a major event in your life, second only to your future wedding. Along with the excitement and joy, it will bring along the inevitable question:

What should I wear for the engagement party?

Planning your engagement outfit can get a bit overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. You just need to find something that makes you feel confident and reflects your style. These days, the confusion regarding what to wear is not due to the lack of options; rather it is due to the multitude of sartorial options available. You’re probably dealing with the dilemma of whether to wear a classic suit or something more casual.

Which style should you pick and what color should you wear? If such questions are keeping you up at night, this guide can help you decode engagement party attire and pick the perfect outfit for you.

Factors to Consider Choosing Your Engagement Attire

• Venue: The location and type of venue will determine the clothing that will be most appropriate and comfortable. For instance, if the venue is a luxury hotel or upscale restaurant, a suit may be more appropriate. If it’s a casual outdoor venue like a garden, you’ll do well with a more relaxed outfit such as chinos and a blazer.
• Season and Weather: The season and weather around the time of your engagement will impact your fabric choice and layering options. Warm weather calls for lightweight breathable fabrics, and cold weather may necessitate layering. Like destination weddings, a rising trend is to have destination engagements. If your plan is something along these lines, check the climate, season, and weather possibilities of your chosen destination before finalizing your outfit.
• Theme and Formality: You’re the first person who should be adhering to the dress code and level of formality desired at your engagement party. You and your partner will set the tone for the event with your outfits.
• Personal Style: Abiding by the dress code and theme does not mean you have to compromise on your personal style. Whether your style is classic, modern, or eclectic, stay true to yourself.
• Comfort: The chosen outfit should not restrict your movements. You should be able to relax and focus on socializing without any discomfort from the beginning to the end of the event. A comfortable outfit tends to improve a person's overall demeanor. Moreover, it also looks more flattering in photographs.
• Fiancee’s Outfit: If your fiancee has chosen her outfit first, it could work in your favor. Now you know what you need to match up to and complement. You don’t have to pick the exact same color for the entire outfit. You could pick a complementary color, or choose based on a consistent color scheme. Or you could match the color of your fiancee’s outfit with your dress shirt, tie, bow tie, or pocket square. The overall aesthetic and level of formality of your outfits should align.

Coordinating outfits will lead to a more harmonious appearance as a couple on the day you make the public declaration of your commitment and intention to marry each other.

Dressing According to the Type of Engagement Party

• Formal: The classic essentials for males during formal events include suits, crisp dress shirts, and versatile footwear. You could go for a timeless look with a dark two-piece suit and a crisp white shirt. Another option for a formal engagement is a three-piece suit (that includes a waistcoat) Rarely, an engagement is a very formal affair, but if that’s your case, you will need a tuxedo in black or midnight blue, white shirt, black bow tie and dress shoes.
• Smart Casual: Smart casual is the perfect blend of casual and formal elements. Opt for a plain or patterned (but nothing too busy) button-up or polo shirt with tailored trousers or chinos, dress shoes, a watch, and a belt. Depending on the venue, you could add a structured blazer or suit vest. A striped tie can add a pop of color as well as some additional visual interest.
• Casual: Although you want an effortless look, the key is to out some thought into it. Denim is a no-no for your engagement. The best option is chinos with a breathable button-up shirt. If the engagement is at a beach, and if it fits with your theme, you could pair a linen shirt with tailored shorts.

Getting Clarity

Answering these questions will help you make a better decision regarding the engagement outfit:

• What’s the dress code (if any) for the event?
• Which colors complement your skin tone and look the best on you?
• Does the outfit option make you feel comfortable?
• Is the outfit option suitable for the venue?
• Does the chosen option fit well?
• What is your fiancee’s take on the outfit?
• Does the outfit align with your fiancee’s outfit?
• Does the outfit truly reflect your dressing style?

Adding Personal Touches

Make your outfit more memorable and special by adding personalized touches to it. Consider using your favorite colors, fabrics, or accessories and meaningful details. Here are a few ideas:

• Cultural elements - Celebrate your heritage with your choice of outfit elements. Depending on your cultural background, you could use traditional textiles, motifs, embroidery, or even a headpiece.
• Statement Accessories - You could add a touch of flair to your outfit with accessories such as stylish earplugs, unique ear cuffs, distinctive tie bars, striking lapel pin or vintage sunglasses.
• DIY embellishments - Add a DIY twist to your conventional and classic outfit. If the outfit allows, and if you’re into it, add iron-on patches with meaningful designs, or add subtle embroidery (initials/wedding date/meaningful symbols) to the collar, cuffs, or pockets. You could also get creative with fabric paint or dye. Replace the standard buttons with fancy ones. If you want something less permanent, you can use pocket squares or lapel pins that you designed or made yourself. With DIY embellishments, you can ensure that your outfit is truly one-of-a-kind.

Wrapping Up

Engagement parties range from intimate gatherings to lavish soirees. The outfit choices for each type vary. The most important thing you should remember regarding the engagement party attire is that it should make you feel at ease and confident.

As you celebrate the love that brought you to this moment, your outfit should not detract from the experience. Rather, it should allow you to make memories without distractions and thoroughly enjoy yourself with your beloved.