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Groom’s Guide: Wedding Responsibilities

 
Groom guide for wedding responsibilities
 

The lead-up to your big day can feel relentless. Wedding preparations, like rings, budgeting, and planning require a lot of dedicated attention and effort. You want it to be perfect — and it can be!

While a groom’s responsibilities can vary from couple to couple or tradition to tradition, there are key elements where grooms can alleviate some stress and help their partners plan for their special day together.

In this guide, we’re covering absolutely everything grooms should know ahead of their wedding, including pre-, during, and post-wedding checklists to ensure you nail every aspect of the wedding planning process — all the way from the proposal to partying.

 
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A Quick Overview of the Groom’s Responsibilities

Before we dive deep into the pre-, during, and post-wedding checklist for grooms, here’s a summary of what we’ll cover:

  • 12+ months in advance: Sorting out the wedding rings — especially if you’re doing something custom; booking vendors; creating your guestlist; etc.
  • 6-12 months in advance: Start thinking about your wedding suit; choose and notify your groomsmen; start the marriage license process; etc.
  • 3-6 months in advance: Rent your suit; book grooming appointments; create a playlist; etc.
  • Day-of duties: Help orchestrate the day; greet guests; review your vows; and make sure you have the rings!
  • Days following the ceremony: Return rentals.
  • 1-4 weeks afterward: Create personalized thank-you cards for guests; select wedding photos; relax with your spouse.
 
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6-12+ Months Before the CeremonyPre-Wedding Responsibilities for Grooms
 
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A lot of pre-wedding planning is a joint effort between you and your partner. Well, it certainly should be, anyway! Whatever you do, don’t push everything onto your soon-to-be spouse. It’s both of your special days, after all, and weathering the pre-wedding storm together can be both a fun challenge and a great bonding experience.

When it comes to planning, from the rings to organizing wedding expenses, here’s everything grooms should aim to get in order 6 to 12 months in advance.

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Set a Budget

Set a Budget

Setting your wedding budget means estimating the costs of all aspects of your wedding, including venue, catering, attire, photography, entertainment, flowers, decorations, and any additional services like transportation and accommodations.

It’s imperative to set this guideline early, as nearly everything you’ll buy or book costs money, and staying in range of what you’re comfortable spending will influence your choices greatly.

 
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In the months and even days leading up to the wedding, you’ll want to start focusing on some of the finer details that don’t necessarily require months of preparation and planning, such as selecting your music and sending out reminders about the rehearsal dinner.


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Wedding Playlist

Curate Your Playlist

Most couples probably curate their wedding music over a long period, but if you’ve yet to put anything together, sit down with your fiance and select some wedding tunes! Pay extra attention to first-dance songs.

If you’re up for the challenge, you can even curate your entire wedding playlist. Using a popular music streaming app, create a new playlist and simply start saving songs you’d love to hear on the dance floor.

Doing this yourself can also help save money on a DJ.


Day-Of Wedding To Do’sHow To Handle Your Special Day Like a Pro
 
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With all of the pre-wedding planning squared away, the time has finally come. You’re about to marry the love of your life. No sweat, right?

Your wedding day is filled with all kinds of emotions, and it’s normal to be nervous. Without letting your nerves get the better of you, these tips will help keep you cool-headed.

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Get Ready

Getting Ready

You may have noticed a theme throughout this guide: start early. It’s no different on the day of:

  • Start getting ready early to avoid any last-minute rush. It’s much, much better to be slightly early than a little late on your big day.
  • Have a backup plan for outfit emergencies, like an extra pair of cufflinks if you misplace the original set.
 
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Days Following the CeremonyPost-Wedding Checklist
 
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Congratulations! You’re married.

Before you go planning that ever-important honeymoon, there are a few more “I’s” to dot and “T’s” to cross. You’re almost there!

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Return Rentals

1-3 Days After Ceremony: Return Rentals

Weddings typically entail a lot of rentals, from your suit to the decor. To avoid late fees, make sure that everything is returned on time. If you’re heading off on a honeymoon right away, designate a willing family member or friend to handle this for you.

Be mindful of vendor return policies — especially suit rentals — as many predatory services will require you to return your suit ASAP, banking on the fact that you’ll be too exhausted or preoccupied to make the return and incur late fees.

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The Keys to It All: Essential Skills for Wedding Day Success

 
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This guide is ripe with tips and tricks for each stage of the process, from pre-planning to the wedding ceremony itself to post-nuptial follow-up. No matter what stage you’re currently in, there are a handful of helpful suggestions that you can apply to all phases that will keep you pushing forward:

  • Stay organized: Use a wedding planning checklist or app to keep track of tasks and deadlines. Stay on top of updating it to keep it current, and set reminders for time-sensitive tasks.
  • Communicate: Maintain open communication with your partner, wedding planner, and vendors and ensure everyone stays on the same page throughout to avoid misunderstandings.
  • Delegate: Don’t try to handle everything yourself. Yes, this is a Groom’s Guide, however, you’ve got good, capable company in your best man, groomsmen, and family members. Delegate specific responsibilities to help yourself manage the immense pressure that often comes with your wedding day.
  • Stay calm: Wedding planning can be stressful, but it’s important to stay calm and focused and to have fun, of course! Take breaks when you need to and don’t hesitate to seek support from your partner or loved ones when the pressure feels too much to bear.
  • Manage your time: Stick to your schedule as closely as possible, but be open to flexibility. To help with this, bake buffer time into each step of the planning process to account for any unexpected delays that may crop up along the way.
  • Prioritize your relationship: Amidst all these tasks and triumphs, remember to focus on your relationship! When everything is said and done, schedule some quality time together to start your married life on a positive note — whether that be a honeymoon or just a nice, relaxing weekend together after months of panicked planning.

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As this guide illustrates, Groom Duty entails tasks and responsibilities. We strive to remove as much of the burden and stress of your wedding plan as possible so you can enjoy your special day to the fullest.

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